Pain Behind that Smile

have you ever wondered.....It’s so very easy to look at people and make quick judgments about them, their present and their past.

You would be amazed at the pain and tears a single smile hides. What a person shows to the world is only one small facet of the iceberg hidden from sight. And more often than not, it’s lined with cracks and scars that go all the way to the foundation of their soul.

Let's Never judge, learn to respect and acknowledge the feelings of another.We would be doing a world of good to the morale of the other person.

EXCELLENCE V/S PERFECTION

In the years gone by, I must admit that I did spend way too much energy and time trying to be perfect. That aiming for perfection left me feeling inadequate and stressed.

Nothing ever goes to waste and in this case too,it has taught me a lesson. When you aim for perfection, you are in probability setting yourself up for failure.

Instead, I would suggest that you chose to aim for EXCELLENCE in whatever you do. Excellence is dynamic and is always changing and evolving. You attain one level of excellence and then strive for the next. Each moment offers new opportunities for choosing excellence.
Instead of working toward perfection and being disappointed,focus on getting as good as you can possibly be in any given field. Shifting away from perfection and toward excellence will give you space and courage to learn and grow, and will make you a happier and lighter person.It has helped me and I hope it will help you too!

God bless+

YOU ARE THE BEST...NO MATTER WHAT OTHERS SAY

Mistakes are part of growing. They are very much a natural part of every worthwhile endeavor.We all make and will make mistakes, but you must have the courage to admit those mistakes you've done and then to follow through and do your best to make the wrong things right.

We will always have people who will suppport us and some others who will criticize or condemn us for our mistakes.If someone refuses to support you as you grow beyond your past mistakes, they are now the one that’s making a mistake.If someone continuously judges you by your past, holds it against you, and refuses to forgive you, you might have to reconstruct your present and future by leaving them behind.

The shortcomings and weaknesses you often see in yourself are only the qualities of your own individuality. There is something unique and special about you. You are different. You may never be as good as someone else, and they may never be as good as you. You are meant to be different. You are here to express who you are and enjoy what you have at this very moment. When you accept this, there is no reason to compare yourself to someone or something you aren’t.


Seriously, you got to spell out when enough is enough! Letting go of negative people doesn’t mean you hate them, on the contrary it simply means you care where you are heading to in your life.

Some people are impossible to please.Throughout your lifetime some people will disrespect you and treat you shabbily for no apparent reason at all. Don’t consume yourself with trying to change them or win their approval. And don’t make any space in your heart to hate them. Simply walk away because it will be a waste of time and any sort of hate and aggravation in your heart for them, will only hurt you.

We Are Not Perfect

If you see around you, the people we encounter seemed to be far from perfect.Nothing seems to be perfect; the world itself is not perfect.But somehow with that imperfection,we’re all here living and making our dreams come true.So what is it that makes us move on and do the things while at the back of our mind we still consider the people and the world imperfect? Why do people still fall in love? Why are we so good inspite of all our shortcomings? Well, the shortcomings and weaknesses are a part of our very being.

When we do those small things with all our flaws in tow, we would be surprised at this but they are precisely the reasons others fall in love with us. Amazing isn't it? Its true though.

You must accept your flaws, your weaknesses,and all the mistakes you do.No point in keeping them hidden away.It will make you a liar in the long run. The best would be to deal with the truth.

We must learn the lessons life teaches us constantly.Just accept the consequences of reality, and move on. The mistakes won’t hurt you. The denial and cover-up will.In fact, people like you when you admit your mistakes and flaws. I have had people tell me I like that person because he was honest in his speech and dealings with me. While the truthful person will always be admired,people who lie about themselves will be shunned. They prosper in the short run but in the long term they are heading for disaster.

Every one of us is full of flaws and when we do our work in all good faith and truthfulness, we turn the world upside down and make a good job out of everything we do.

It's time to make that Change

In the course of our journey called "life" we unknowingly hold on to little, obsessive habits that cause us a great deal of stress and unhappiness. Even when we feel that something is wrong, we fail to seek the changes we need to make and instead cling to what’s not working, simply because it’s what we’re accustomed to.You need to move on.

It’s time to make a change. It’s time to give up the habits that no longer serve your well-being and embrace the positive changes you need to be happy. You cannot grow unless you are willing to change.

Be bold and make that decision to change. God bless you.

Time is Now


So many people say they want a new life, but then they take the new one they get every morning for granted. Don’t do this. Don’t wait until your life is almost over to realize how great it has been. A great life begins right now, when you stop wanting a better one.

Be Patient with Yourself

Whenever you are feeling anxious or impatient about your growth,think of the Chinese bamboo plant.
For the first four years of its life, all you can see is a little tiny shoot growing out of the ground. However, during those first years, an intricate, deep, and wide root structure is developing. Then, in the fifth year, this bamboo plant grows up to 80 feet high.

Even when you can‘t see it, remember you are growing,as long as you keep doing the work you are supposed to do.